Friends of Grammar: a story of enduring service and commitment

The establishment of a Grammar Mothers Committee in 1962 by Headmaster, Sir Brian Hone, was a pivotal moment in the history of Melbourne Grammar School. The group, albeit with a different name and in slightly a different form, continues to enrich our culture to this day.

What initially commenced as a modest assembly of mothers collaborating to support the School has since transformed into the vibrant and hardworking parent group we now recognise as Friends of Grammar (FOG).

Over the years, FOG has organised a generous mix of social events and fundraising activities including fairs, cocktail parties, film nights, art exhibitions, publication of cookbooks, jumble sales, golf days, wine auctions, twilight barbecues, family cricket matches, bush dances, film nights, garden tours, tennis tournaments, trivia nights, cinema outings, cooking demonstrations, fashion parades, lunches and more.

They ran the Uniform Shop from 1985 until 1991, and continue to run the Swap Shop to this day. Since they began, they have financially supported a vast array of initiatives across the School – everything from classroom equipment to engaging artworks and musical equipment.

Today FOG plays a crucial role in encouraging parents to become active members of the School community and fostering connections among parents themselves. Each campus branch orchestrates an array of lively social gatherings throughout the year, all with the aim of promoting inclusivity and facilitating new friendships.

FOG extends functional support to parents through various initiatives such as a second-hand uniform shop and annual textbook exchanges. Committee members often provide a welcoming face for new parents and serve as an invaluable source of Melbourne Grammar-specific practical advice for them as well.

While the emphasis on fundraising has declined over the years, some philanthropic activity does occur each year with the resultant funds given to the School to further opportunities for students.

Our School would be markedly different without the unwavering devotion and unifying spirit provided by the dedicated members of FOG.

The evolution of FOG

Pre-1962

Various short term mothers’ groups established in support of School initiatives, such as fundraising for the Chapel of St Peter and planning the Centenary Fair.

1962

School Council formally recognises four groups – The Scout Group, Friends of Wadhurst, Friends of Grimwade, and Grammar Mothers (Senior School). No School functions to be arranged without the sanction of the Grammar Mothers Committee (included Chair and Vice-Chair from each campus group).

1977

Grammar Mothers Committee broadened to become Friends of Grammar (FOG). Separate sub-committees to operate at Senior School, Wadhurst and Grimwade House with overarching co-ordination led by the President of FOG, who also served as President of FOG (Senior School).

1991

FOG becomes an incorporated association.

1995

Parent representatives appointed for each class for the first time.

2022

New FOG Rules of Association established due to government legislative changes and the evolution of internal FOG practices.